Does your boyfriend or girlfriend borrow money from you?

[Starmix]

I am a victim of this. Honestly, I was a victim of this. I was thinking that because I loved the guy and he loved me, he will pay me. He borrowed huge money from me. In Ph peso 80,000. It is equivalent to $1,500. He promised to pay me after 6 months, but it never happened until today. You might call me a fool and I will humbly accept. Love is like crazy. There is no mental reservation once something like this happens and it was so timing that I have huge savings. I was told the guy left the country with another girl. They were married in Melbourne, Australia, and found work there. My ex was hired as a branch manager at Mcdonald's and his wife was an accountant there. But never had he messaged me to apologize and to pay his debt. What a thick face human being.

It is not good to let your boyfriend or girlfriend borrow money from you. We are not so sure of their real motives. Have you experienced this in your relationship?

 

[Salt]

I don't have any Girlfriend so no such issue but I feel in love we do allow our partner to use our money

 

[Starmix]

I don't have any Girlfriend so no such issue but I feel in love we do allow our partner to use our money

It's impossible to believe you don't have a girlfriend. Even in the past you didn't experience in a relationship with someone?

 

[Salt]

It's impossible to believe you don't have a girlfriend. Even in the past you didn't experience in a relationship with someone?

I am forever single LOL, yes I was in relationship but it was LDR which is no longer active

 

[Inem]

@sweetieM everything given for love is worth giving up. I don't joke with my money with a lover I am not married to

 

[Starmix]

I am forever single LOL, yes I was in relationship but it was LDR which is no longer active

Why will you be forever single? Are there no ladies there near you or an office worker? But if it is fate, then go fo it. It is better to be single but with money hehehe.

 

[Inem]

Whenever you give money to a boyfriend or girlfriend as a loan, you have to make him or her sign a contract stating when he would pay bac.

 

[Salt]

Why will you be forever single? Are there no ladies there near you or an office worker? But if it is fate, then go fo it. It is better to be single but with money hehehe.

Haha it depends on our fate, will see and hope to find someone and yes money is always important even when we are old

 

[Starmix]

It's not good to be forever single. life will be empty and lonely, lol. But I'm ready to face my fate. It's also good to remain single less hastle lol.

 

[Inem]

It's not good to be forever single. life will be empty and lonely, lol. But I'm ready to face my fate. It's also good to remain single less hastle lol.

Hey come and marry me. But back to the topic, I love to define my financial boundaries in relationships from the very start.

 

[Kubiatabasi]

It is not right for a boyfriend to take money from a lady. The lady is the one to take from the boyfriend.

 

[Starmix]

I was such a fool believing the guy with very good lip service but no real commitment. That was past and have moved on. I learned a big lesson out of this bad experience loving someone abusing my love and kindness, but I believe on karma .

 

[Good-Person]

I am a victim of this. Honestly, I was a victim of this. I was thinking that because I loved the guy and he loved me, he will pay me. He borrowed huge money from me. In Ph peso 80,000. It is equivalent to $1,500. He promised to pay me after 6 months, but it never happened until today. You might call me a fool and I will humbly accept. Love is like crazy. There is no mental reservation once something like this happens and it was so timing that I have huge savings. I was told the guy left the country with another girl. They were married in Melbourne, Australia, and found work there. My ex was hired as a branch manager at Mcdonald's and his wife was an accountant there. But never had he messaged me to apologize and to pay his debt. What a thick face human being.

It is not good to let your boyfriend or girlfriend borrow money from you. We are not so sure of their real motives. Have you experienced this in your relationship?

I was also scammed by a so-called "girlfriend". She promised to marry me, but after receiving money from me, she blocked me. She was a really pathetic and ridiculous creature. In fact, no one can imagine what I went through.

 

[Riberet19]

Well such a thing has never happened to me, that my girlfriend borrowed for me, and I would not let her do it to tell the truth.

 

[Good-Person]

Well such a thing has never happened to me, that my girlfriend borrowed for me, and I would not let her do it to tell the truth.

I will never give money to someone who claims to love me. This is a fact. It is very hard to trust people nowadays.

 

[Riberet19]

I will never give money to someone who claims to love me. This is a fact. It is very hard to trust people nowadays.

If he/she loves you, he/she will not look at the money you have or the money you can give him, that's obvious, but sometimes our minds are clouded when we are in love.

 

[Good-Person]

If he/she loves you, he/she will not look at the money you have or the money you can give him, that's obvious, but sometimes our minds are clouded when we are in love.

Unfortunately, there are many things that now involve money. No woman would marry a man who has no money in his bank accounts. This is a reality.

 

[Riberet19]

Unfortunately, there are many things that now involve money. No woman would marry a man who has no money in his bank accounts. This is a reality.

Yes, you are right about that, if you don't have money no matter what you do, they need a man with financial stability.

 

[Good-Person]

Yes, you are right about that, if you don't have money no matter what you do, they need a man with financial stability.

They never consider how much a man loves the. This is a reality of life. I have seen many cases where the woman simply left the man, just because he became poor.

 

[Starmix]

Haha it depends on our fate, will see and hope to find someone and yes money is always important even when we are old

Money is very important in our lives, even if you remain single, no one cares as long as you have money. Those who married young never ended their marriage happily because they always quarrel about money.