Then honestly.. you have NO business posting in many circumstances on an any site (much less running a site). In MANY cases you ARE going to be confronted by alternative views, and sometimes aggressively. One should simply be adult enough to respond to those posts with reason without whining how you are "being abused".
NO admin site (nor even a site admin) should strive to be "politically correct". There are forums/sites for THAT specific discourse. Generally FACTS should rule and not opinions unless you are of a "chit chat" type site. If you (as an admin) can't deal with your or your users being called out on choices, and in certain cases being called stupid and given facts that support that premise... maybe you are too "delicate" to be running a site? Last I checked, calling someone stupid based upon their behavior that supports that supposition is NOT an attack, simply a statement of fact (something that at least ONE admin site that I know of was too stupid to be able to figure out). Not everyone plays by the political correctness code... some people actually TELL you what they believe. May that butt-hurt you.. very possibly.. but take the time to actually consider the THOUGHT given to you more than the words. It seems that WAY to many in our younger society can't delve that deep into a conversation/comment. They can only deal with it superficially.
Adults are able to deal with confrontation, even if it may be what they consider 'aggressive' and respond appropriately without going and whining on how they are "being abused" when confronted with alternative opinions. It really seems that much of our society has an inability to deal with confrontation and would rather go screaming and crying on how their are "being abused" by the big bad boogey man.
Sorry, there is a phrase for that in my generation, and it's not a nice one. Think rhymes with being a witch. And yes, that's not politically correct either... but whine like one, be compared to one by truthful adults.
I find it rather ironic (as a person almost in my 6th decade) how easily offended todays society is. I guess it is true that the older generation has thicker skin as they had to actually face MORE of life first-hand than current society has. Maybe one day the youth of today can grow thicker skin and actually be able to deal with dissension directly without whining and crying for the "mommy brigade"?
The point of this... when moderating your site.. use good sense and think of ALL positions.. not what is "politically correct" at the moment, whether that be to the left or to the right. Do some research before actually lashing out based upon your personal opinion.
NO admin site (nor even a site admin) should strive to be "politically correct". There are forums/sites for THAT specific discourse. Generally FACTS should rule and not opinions unless you are of a "chit chat" type site. If you (as an admin) can't deal with your or your users being called out on choices, and in certain cases being called stupid and given facts that support that premise... maybe you are too "delicate" to be running a site? Last I checked, calling someone stupid based upon their behavior that supports that supposition is NOT an attack, simply a statement of fact (something that at least ONE admin site that I know of was too stupid to be able to figure out). Not everyone plays by the political correctness code... some people actually TELL you what they believe. May that butt-hurt you.. very possibly.. but take the time to actually consider the THOUGHT given to you more than the words. It seems that WAY to many in our younger society can't delve that deep into a conversation/comment. They can only deal with it superficially.
Adults are able to deal with confrontation, even if it may be what they consider 'aggressive' and respond appropriately without going and whining on how they are "being abused" when confronted with alternative opinions. It really seems that much of our society has an inability to deal with confrontation and would rather go screaming and crying on how their are "being abused" by the big bad boogey man.
Sorry, there is a phrase for that in my generation, and it's not a nice one. Think rhymes with being a witch. And yes, that's not politically correct either... but whine like one, be compared to one by truthful adults.
I find it rather ironic (as a person almost in my 6th decade) how easily offended todays society is. I guess it is true that the older generation has thicker skin as they had to actually face MORE of life first-hand than current society has. Maybe one day the youth of today can grow thicker skin and actually be able to deal with dissension directly without whining and crying for the "mommy brigade"?
The point of this... when moderating your site.. use good sense and think of ALL positions.. not what is "politically correct" at the moment, whether that be to the left or to the right. Do some research before actually lashing out based upon your personal opinion.
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