That is very true. Learning from a mistake is a conscious effort that one needs to take. You never learn anything if you engage in complaining and damning yourself for not doing it right. But being self compassionate and ready to make changes is the best way to move forward.Learning from ones past mistakes is a conscious effort I must say because most of the time we are engrossed counting our losses than we do not have time to look back and see what to improve and avoid next time