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Do you make friends with all co-workers or try to steer clear of most of them?

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When it comes to working at a place of work with a group of other employees, do you usually try to make friends with this group of employees? Or do you like to not make too many friends or acquaintances? I will talk to people, but I don't make much of an effort to make them my friends. When I worked at the call center a few years back, I remember talking to a small group of people. But I never became their friends. I probably could've with a couple of them, but after I was done with that temp job, I never looked back.
 
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I try to be in friendly terms with my co-workers but I do not make my co-workers my friends. IN fact I am not the most friendly guy. I am very choosy when it comes to making friends. IN fact have have a small group of friends and most of my friends are from my school days and college days
 
When it comes to working at a place of work with a group of other employees, do you usually try to make friends with this group of employees? Or do you like to not make too many friends or acquaintances? I will talk to people, but I don't make much of an effort to make them my friends. When I worked at the call center a few years back, I remember talking to a small group of people. But I never became their friends. I probably could've with a couple of them, but after I was done with that temp job, I never looked back.

I am a kind of person who does not make that many friends that easily at workplace. This is because I have been betrayed many times in the past. Sometimes we make mistakes in our life and a wise person always learns from his mistake. We should never repeat those mistakes and try to make our lives better.
 
Personally, I try as much as possible to avoid those whom I don't have the same energy vibe with in my workplace. It is not a must that I am going to be close friends to every colleague I have at work. There are some people who doesn't have the best interest at heart for you, so you need to be careful how you relate with people at work.
 
If the company where you are working is only having limited staff members, it can be possible for you to be friends with all of them because you people can easily get familiar working in the same place. When there are so many people who are working in the company, I doubt if it is possible for you to be friends with everybody. You can only be friends with those whom you are working with in the same department.
 
I am a kind of person who does not make that many friends that easily at workplace. This is because I have been betrayed many times in the past. Sometimes we make mistakes in our life and a wise person always learns from his mistake. We should never repeat those mistakes and try to make our lives better.

If you make the wrong friends, it will haunt you because they will looking for ways to exploit the friendship. There are some friends who will do everything to ruin your life and your finances. The friends I have made at work have proven to be those who can have my back.
 
Personally, I try as much as possible to avoid those whom I don't have the same energy vibe with in my workplace. It is not a must that I am going to be close friends to every colleague I have at work. There are some people who doesn't have the best interest at heart for you, so you need to be careful how you relate with people at work.

I have never been a fan of making all of the co-workers as my friends. There are, indeed, many people who tend to be really social and this is also one of the main reasons why they tend to form friendship with more people around them. It depends on the kind of personality of the person.
 
I have never been a fan of making all of the co-workers as my friends. There are, indeed, many people who tend to be really social and this is also one of the main reasons why they tend to form friendship with more people around them. It depends on the kind of personality of the person.

Someone asking you to become friends with all of your co-worker is like someone asking you to become friends with everyone in the world. I know it is an impossible thing for you to do, there is never a way it's going to be possible for you to become friends with everybody.
 
Someone asking you to become friends with all of your co-worker is like someone asking you to become friends with everyone in the world. I know it is an impossible thing for you to do, there is never a way it's going to be possible for you to become friends with everybody.

The fact remains that when you work in a specific circle, you tend to meet many different people in the office. This is why not all the people would be the same as many people belong to different kinds of backgrounds. Therefore, it would be impossible to interact with all the people in the same place.
 
The fact remains that when you work in a specific circle, you tend to meet many different people in the office. This is why not all the people would be the same as many people belong to different kinds of backgrounds. Therefore, it would be impossible to interact with all the people in the same place.

You can't be friends with everybody no matter how much you try. There are those who would dislike you naturally for no reason. If you try and force your friendship on them, it will not work the way you expect it. It's never going to work in your favor.
 
The fact remains that when you work in a specific circle, you tend to meet many different people in the office. This is why not all the people would be the same as many people belong to different kinds of backgrounds. Therefore, it would be impossible to interact with all the people in the same place.

Whenever you are working in a company, there is always going to be so many people who are going to be your colleagues. It is all up to you to decide the ones that you want to be friends with and that means getting close to them and them doing the same thing with you. Although, it's not something that you can be able to do with everybody.
 
My relationship with most of them ends at the workplace. There is never a point where it has to go beyond that where they may visit me at home. This is what I am always pushing to avoid since I desire to create certain boundaries at the workplace.
 
Whenever you are working in a company, there is always going to be so many people who are going to be your colleagues. It is all up to you to decide the ones that you want to be friends with and that means getting close to them and them doing the same thing with you. Although, it's not something that you can be able to do with everybody.

Human beings are social creatures and this is why they may not feel compatible with others on many occasions. This is why it makes sense that not all the people would socialise with other people. This is the main reason why not all the people make friends with others.
 
Human beings are social creatures and this is why they may not feel compatible with others on many occasions. This is why it makes sense that not all the people would socialise with other people. This is the main reason why not all the people make friends with others.

The most important thing is for you to find a way to mutually work and coexist with anyone that you find yourself being your colleague at any workplace. This is because when you are making it very difficult to work with the person, you are going to be the person that management is going to look at terminating his employment.
 

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