Perhaps you want "have it all" as soon as you run your forum and you worked really hard to achieve that before opening but then imagine this scenario. You have a forum running and you connected discord server running as well. Wouldn't that be a conflict or better to say a problem for your newly opened forum? You need to gather users to write there, and not on discord server. Besides that, do you even need discord server at all? It does the same thing as forum so why would you split the activity if there is no need for it?
Do you have discord server connected with forum and why? If not, do you plan having it?
Do you have discord server connected with forum and why? If not, do you plan having it?