How one is treated by parents when you just got back from school

[Olaoluwa Abraham Abiodun]

I know many of us can relate with this, the first day you come back from school you will be treated like King and Queen infact you will not be asked to run any errand or do any chores but the ehn this how the thing will start

Mum: Abraham please help me wash those plate inside the zink

am very sure when it is already getting to 2 to 3 days you've been home she wouldn't even add please again

 

[Ezzyoj]

That's typical African parents for you, especially Nigeria moms they are expected in missing you when you are away, and really know how to shower you with love the first day you return. But their love rarely exceed 48 hours. Really funny sha.

 

[Snazzy001]

Parents are one best gifts we have got in life.the way they treat children generally is amazing whether rough or gentle.am in school and i get monthly allowances, when i come home, the first week i get pampered.the following week we get to start seeing drama.

 

[KvngMurphy]

Seriously I can relate that feeling and it feels so sweet because parents are really a blessing to our lives. I can remember those times I return back home for holidays, the first two days use to be all love and care until I've completed a week. I start getting normal treatment like everyone else at home and I Start feeling like my return messed alot of things up for then with the way I'm yelled at sometimes. That's a typical African parent for you

 

[Diamond07]

So relatable. That's African parents for you. If you've been away from home for too long, on your return you will be treated like royalty, Once it exceeds a week, the treatment comes back to normal

 

[Trojan8]

I don't think it is only about African parents. We all suffer from the same bias most of the time, we meet someone and we go extra to make them comfortable. Then overtime we start taking things more serious with them. I know that I have done something similar, I am thinking it is the same for most of us.

 

[Ayokex]

When you just got back from school or from national youth service in Nigeria, your parents will first treat with respect for the period of about one year plus trusting you that very soon you will get a job and stand on your feet. This treatment will change when the time is tending towards 2_3years.

 

[Jesuyemi 08]

I know many of us can relate with this, the first day you come back from school you will be treated like King and Queen infact you will not be asked to run any errand or do any chores but the ehn this how the thing will start

Mum: Abraham please help me wash those plate inside the zink

am very sure when it is already getting to 2 to 3 days you've been home she wouldn't even add please again

This is very true and I can relate the issue to one saying which goes like absence makes the heart grow fonder. When they see you at home, they will treat you cool for the first week and the following week, they treat you like a usual member of the house.

 

[Spicywilfred]

Then whenever I come back from school my mom treats me like a queen for two weeks after two weeks my queenship is over. Hmmmmmm I enjoy those moments alot.

 

[Ralphjoe]

This is quite true with my mother then especially when I will be away for some time, she will be bugging me with calls trying to know where I am at every point in time but when I come back, it will just take her just two days for her to go back to default settings.

 

[Adventurer]

I know many of us can relate with this, the first day you come back from school you will be treated like King and Queen infact you will not be asked to run any errand or do any chores but the ehn this how the thing will start

Mum: Abraham please help me wash those plate inside the zink

am very sure when it is already getting to 2 to 3 days you've been home she wouldn't even add please again

Sure not only my parents, back then they would have a delicious meal waiting for me, would call me at every hour to know my location ( my school was a 4 hour journey)

 

[Fizzy_boi]

Hostel life has only been high so when ever I come back for holidays at home my feeding rates always rise I eat alot most parents believe we were given foods proportionally in hostel .

 

[Ayokex]

Then whenever I come back from school my mom treats me like a queen for two weeks after two weeks my queenship is over. Hmmmmmm I enjoy those moments alot.

It's a matter of time, when you first finished from school and arrived home your parents especially your mum will treat you very nicely but by the time you're staying too long without having anything to show then you will begin to lose your respect.

 

[Shigobad20201]

I know many of us can relate with this, the first day you come back from school you will be treated like King and Queen infact you will not be asked to run any errand or do any chores but the ehn this how the thing will start

Mum: Abraham please help me wash those plate inside the zink

am very sure when it is already getting to 2 to 3 days you've been home she wouldn't even add please again

They will feel like the first person to sent a child to school in the neighbourhood, they will feel blessed, I even remembered my mum always tell me to out on my nysc crested vest whenever I am travelling back to my PPA so that she can see me off and will be show in off by greeting almost everybody on our way.

 

[Dowenship]

I know many of us can relate with this, the first day you come back from school you will be treated like King and Queen infact you will not be asked to run any errand or do any chores but the ehn this how the thing will start

Mum: Abraham please help me wash those plate inside the zink

am very sure when it is already getting to 2 to 3 days you've been home she wouldn't even add please again

Lol...i think this is only applicable to African parents most times...i don't think this happen abroad because no child discipline over they compare to ours here...

 

[Prettyjanie]

Growing up in my country, any time I got back home from school every one is happy to see you especially my mum but after a few days, if you misbehave, you will be dealt with.

 

[Filicit]

Lol, I guess that is why there is a thread here about leaving your parents home, it's like a phenomenon in this part of the world that parents are being harsh on their children.

 

[Lucy ID]

I remember then when I'm back from school is like I just came back from abroad, it's always sweet and good. You will be treated like a star and pampered but after few weeks it will change

 

[eLdavis]

I remember the first holiday I had after going to school, it was after six months, I was treated like royalty the night I came in but that ended the next day lol. Parents act like that unknowingly to them simply because they miss you.

 

[Laurentta]

Lol, this is exactly how my parents behaved the first time I l came home on holiday. My dad said i became so thin and they started stuffing me with food. I didnt do any house chores for the first two days, i was asked to rest.