Mahabub Hassan
Active member
Hi
Just interested as it seems it's expected that people work longer and longer hours these days. I personally try to stick to my standard 37, although once you factor travel time / lunch breaks I'd guess about 45hrs a week are consumed (wasted!!) by work.
As a male I also feel it's expected of me, please tell me I'm wrong but as a 36 year old, I get the impression that most half decent and above women are not happy unless their boyfriend / husband is working more and more, it feels like a competition. Most male friends won't admit it, but during conversations I'll often hear things like 'my girlfriend/wife would be applying for me had I not found the time to apply for this better job etc' I also feel that at least in part, my refusal to not climb the never-ending ladder in the quest for more pay etc is part of the reason my last girlfriend ended things.
Thanks
Just interested as it seems it's expected that people work longer and longer hours these days. I personally try to stick to my standard 37, although once you factor travel time / lunch breaks I'd guess about 45hrs a week are consumed (wasted!!) by work.
As a male I also feel it's expected of me, please tell me I'm wrong but as a 36 year old, I get the impression that most half decent and above women are not happy unless their boyfriend / husband is working more and more, it feels like a competition. Most male friends won't admit it, but during conversations I'll often hear things like 'my girlfriend/wife would be applying for me had I not found the time to apply for this better job etc' I also feel that at least in part, my refusal to not climb the never-ending ladder in the quest for more pay etc is part of the reason my last girlfriend ended things.
Thanks