Do you guys believe in love at first sight? I think we find attraction many people we see, but I don't think we find love by just looks. I think love comes from personality, from being friends with that person, etc. If we fell in love with the first people we found attractive, we probably wouldn't match so well. I'm attracted to personality more than anything. What about you?
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Believe in love and first sight?
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I believe in lust at first sight. Love is a choice that is build on trust, commitment, and bonding. Lust is what we feel when we first lay eyes on someone and all those butterflies, feelings of not wanting to be away... That is just lust.
I do not believe in love at first sight. The thing you feel at first sight is infatuation, it is not love. It is more of a sexual desire. Love will sprout only after you have been together for some time to understand each other, and care for each other.
This is exactly how I feel! When I was a teenager, there was a cute boy up the street out mowing his lawn that I wanted to get to know. But he didn't go to public schools. It wasn't until I was 15 that my friends knew his friends and we were finally introduced. We didn't see each other again for a year when one of my best friends turned around in Trig class and said, "You have GOT to meet my new boyfriend." That turned out to be a big mistake for her...we were friends after of course. But now my husband (who was that cute boy) and I have been married for 33 years and we dated for 6 years prior to getting married. It's a lot of work, not just being cute.
Wow.....it is something straight out a story book. Congratulations on your happy married life. I have also experienced this feeling that this particular classmate from high school would be the person I would want to spend the rest of my life with. I never had the courage to go and speak though I knew that the feeling was mutual. After many years, I did see this person at the school reunion but hardly recognized me.
How many words are in here “I agree with you on this point, drawing from my personal experience of four failed relationships and one successful one. I firmly believe that love at first sight is a myth, and that love is instead a gradual transition that requires intentional effort to build and nurture.
The journey of building love is a remarkable and transformative experience. It necessitates the cultivation of a deep connection with another person, involving the development of trust, understanding, and open communication. Love is not an instantaneous occurrence; rather, it evolves and matures over time through shared experiences, support, and mutual respect.
Furthermore, constructing love entails personal growth and introspection. It involves recognizing and addressing one's own vulnerabilities and insecurities, while simultaneously being willing to comprehend and accept the imperfections of a partner.
building love is a collaborative endeavor that demands dedication, patience, and commitment from both individuals involved. It is an ongoing process of learning, adapting, and growing together, fostering a harmonious and fulfilling connection that can withstand the trials of time.”
In conclusion “Love who you love because life is not guaranteed.” But take it easy the right person will eventually find and when it happens never let them go.
The journey of building love is a remarkable and transformative experience. It necessitates the cultivation of a deep connection with another person, involving the development of trust, understanding, and open communication. Love is not an instantaneous occurrence; rather, it evolves and matures over time through shared experiences, support, and mutual respect.
Furthermore, constructing love entails personal growth and introspection. It involves recognizing and addressing one's own vulnerabilities and insecurities, while simultaneously being willing to comprehend and accept the imperfections of a partner.
building love is a collaborative endeavor that demands dedication, patience, and commitment from both individuals involved. It is an ongoing process of learning, adapting, and growing together, fostering a harmonious and fulfilling connection that can withstand the trials of time.”
In conclusion “Love who you love because life is not guaranteed.” But take it easy the right person will eventually find and when it happens never let them go.
I can agree with this statement. I think love takes time to build through bonding and companionship. When you first see a person, it's usually lustful when you feel you have feelings for them because their body is the first thing you notice. For all we know, they could have a toxic personality. Love, at first sight, is probably a very, very rare thing.
akinlolu99
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As far as I'm concerned, there's nothing like love at first sight. There's only lust at first sight. There's no way you would develop true love for anyone you just meet. You have to know someone very much before you can start developing feelings for them. It's like people who meet and have sex the first day they meet, it's not love but lust!
I've never loved anyone at first sight. I don't believe in love at first sight. I might see someone for the first time and like the person. It may be because of their appearance, way of dressing, how they walk, how they smell and talk but it's never going to enough to consider it love immediately.
Love at first sight.. Hmm yeah I believe in it. But logically, its just like falling in love with a person's appearance without knowing how the person actually is from within. So, if you are lucky, you find a great person. If not, you learn a great lesson.
I don't know if love at first sight is possible since love is a feeling that from my point of view emerges from the connection between two people, you can be very attracted to someone's physical appearance and therefore feel something similar to love, but it is attraction and not love, at least that's what I believe.
As far as I'm concerned, it is a very big gamble for someone to be interested in looking at getting love at first sight. Majority of the people out there will always pretend to be what they are not simply because they are interested in what they will get from you. People really need to be very careful when it comes to relationship related things.
It could be lust at first sight as you said. Most people will be attracted physically to what they see at the first instance and that is what will drive them to the person that they are talking to in the talking stages. Loving someone talks a lot of time to build.
Love at first sight is a scam. There is nothing anyone would tell me which is going to change my mind. The relationship never lasts longer for most people which is why I will never believe in it.
Seriously, in most cases, I will tell you that it is lust at first sight because before you start falling in love with someone, you will definitely have to know that person deeply in so many ways. Love doesn't just start immediately you see someone, it is definitely lust.
That's exactly the point. Some of those people that claim to have fallen in love at first sight are not telling the whole truth. They know deep down in their mind, that such is not possible.
The problem is that most people are very delusional when it comes to things that they don't have control over. They will simply be making up excuses for themselves as the reason why that thing happened that way. There is no way you can tell any reasonable person that you fell in love with a lady you saw at a spot without having any prior relationship with her.
Exactly! There must be a good level of interaction with someone before you can start developing feelings for them. I don't understand how some people will be arguing that it is possible for them to fall in love with someone immediately they set their eyes on the person.
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